self belief

Redefining Success: When You Realise You’re Already Where You Wanted to Be

By Vicky Kelly / 3 November 2025

I’ve been reflecting a lot lately on what success really means.For years, I chased it, trying to prove something to myself. I poured energy into growing, learning, and achieving… believing that one day, when I’d “made it,” I’d finally feel calm, confident, and fulfilled. But here’s what I’ve realised: I was already where I wanted…

Are You Gaslighting Yourself Without Realising It? Here’s How to Stop

By Vicky Kelly / 29 October 2025

I’ve been reflecting on the term “gaslighting” lately.It’s a word we seem to hear more and more often.  Usually in the context of someone else’s behaviour towards you. But what if the gaslighting that’s most harmful isn’t the kind that comes from others…but the kind that quietly comes from within? The things we say to…

You don’t need self belief to be successful…

By Vicky Kelly / 14 April 2018

“The one thing that the most productive, consistent, resilient and loving humans do NOT possess, is an intense belief in themselves…”  Garret Kramer Talking to a friend today, telling her the story of how I came to be presenting with a speaker as awesome as Garret Kramer, I realised that this story confirms what people…