Emotional Health

Why Do I Feel Like I Need to Control Everything?

By Vicky Kelly / 14 July 2026

Wondering why you feel the need to control everything? Discover how the need for control develops, what it’s protecting, and how lasting change begins.

Why Do I Overthink Everything?

By Vicky Kelly / 6 July 2026

Our overthinking about moments in our present life are most often reflections of patterns learned in our past. We can’t solve these problems, via thinking. Read on to learn what we can do.

If you feel constantly overwhelmed and it’s getting debilitating

By Vicky Kelly / 18 June 2026

Constant overwhelm is a brutal experience.  The feeling like you have way more responsibility than you can realistically keep on top of, yet somehow you are doing it. But there is this ever-present lurking fear that something is going to go horribly wrong, because you can’t possibly keep up this pace. If you feel constantly overwhelmed,…

An Invitation to Circle

By Vicky Kelly / 18 September 2025

For centuries, people have gathered in circles to share, reflect, connect, and be witnessed. There is something deeply powerful about sitting in a group where everyone is held in a space of respect and non-judgement. Both Katie (my co-host) and I have experienced first-hand the benefits of being part of regular circles. They create an anchor point…

Is it really that you don’t have time… or is it just out of your comfort zone?

By Vicky Kelly / 22 July 2025

I’ve recently created a short video about something I’ve been thinking a lot about lately. So often we say, “I’d love to, but I just don’t have the time.”  Or “That does sound really interesting, but I’m at capacity at the moment”We say it to ourself and to others.  But the truth is, time isn’t…

How to Create Affirmations You Actually Believe

By Vicky Kelly / 14 July 2025

Affirmations can be powerful tools for change, but only when they actually land. If you’ve ever tried saying something like “I’m a millionaire” or “I love myself completely” and felt a huge inner eye-roll in response… you’re not alone. That’s because your nervous system doesn’t respond to what sounds nice.It responds to what feels safe…

How to Create Change in Your Life (Even If You’re Stuck or Scared)

By Vicky Kelly / 3 July 2025

There’s something so magnetic about the idea of change, isn’t there? The promise of a fresh start.The thought that your life could feel lighter, freer, more aligned.We read the posts. We buy the books. We highlight the quotes that stir something deep inside us… “This time, it’s going to be different.” And maybe for a…

The Prayer for Change

By Vicky Kelly / 27 June 2025

Many of us are quietly holding a deep longing for change.Whether it’s in our work, our finances, our health, or simply how we feel day to day – the question of how to create change in your life often begins as a quiet inner whisper. We want things to shift. We pray for something new.…

Rethinking Capacity: A Mindset Shift for High Performers

By Vicky Kelly / 18 June 2025

“I’m at capacity.” It’s a phrase I hear from clients, colleagues, and friends all the time lately.  And, if I’m honest, I’ve said it myself plenty of times. Usually, it comes with an anxious vibe. A slump in the shoulders. Or a feeling of, “I can’t take on one more thing.” In our culture, being…

Breaking Free from the Status Quo

By Vicky Kelly / 1 May 2025

It’s become clear to me lately that so much of my own journey—and the coaching work I do—is really about one thing: breaking free. Breaking free from conditioning.Breaking free from limiting beliefs.Breaking free from environments that suppress our joy.Breaking free from habits that keep us small.Breaking free from… the status quo. That last one has…